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Coupon Deal at Restaurant.com

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Photo by Daquella Manera.  Used under a Creative Commons license at Flickr.com

Photo by Daquella Manera. Used under a Creative Commons license at Flickr.com

Yesterday, my wife and I experienced a great deal on a great meal at Border Cantina in Novi, MI.  That happens to be our favorite places for Fajita’s (hence the photo).  Border Cantina is participating in a program at Restaurants.com.   The offer was for an 80% discount on their normal discounted gift certificate program.  Normally, you pay about $10 for a $25 coupon.  We were able to pay $2 for a coupon worth $25 of food. (You have to order $35 worth – so $12 for $35 of food is still a good deal in my book).

I haven’t figured out their entire business model yet.  Quite honestly, such a good deal makes me think of all the dot-com companies that sprung up, burned out their initial investment capital and went under fast.  They were encouraging you to order some of the higher profit items (appetizers and desserts) that most people don’t usually order.  It was up to the restaurants if they allowed alcoholic beverages to count towards the $35 minimum.  The couple we dined with has been using this site extensively for the last few months.  Based on our experience and that our really good friends, this looks like an excellent way to strech out the entertainment/dining out envelope to me.

I will say this, the advertising trick worked with us.  My wife ended up buying some trial meals at places we have seen but never really tried before.  It will be a new adventure for us.    With prices like this, we’re going to scale back on cash put into the Entertainment/Eating-Out Envelope.

What creative ways have you seen people marketing their services in this new economy of highly fashionable frugality?

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Dangers of Automatic Investing & Pay Yourself First

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Autopilot works nice., originally uploaded by mertesb.

Would you attempt to fly solo on auto pilot if you were just learning to fly? Of course not.  That’s a silly question.  This post was inspired by a conversation I had in small group at FPU class this week.  The group conversation got started on budgeting and “you need to set up an automatic savings plan to get started on your emergency fund – that’s what my financial advisor told me to do……”   That sparked a rather interesting conversation where I disagreed with conventional wisdom given out today by the financial services community.

“Pay Yourself First” has become a sound-bite cliche in personal finance.  We’ve been told this by people selling some type of savings product.  The sales person sees this as a win-win.  They win commission.  The client wins by actually doing savings.  (Yes the research is extremely clear – people who do automatic investing and payments pay on time more often than those who do not).  However, I want to go deeper than a comparison to average.  I coach my clients to swing for the fence.  Better than average simply is not good enough.

Automatic Savings Plans: Normally, “Pay Yourself First” is used in conjunction with some form of automatic savings plan.  While, I’m not necessarily against automatic savings plans.  I’m going to make the case that they are settling for “good” when there is a “best” case scenario out there.  The reason is simple.  At Penny Coach, we teach proactive budgeting.  We teach people to write a spending plan for their money called a “budget” on-purpose, on-paper before the month begins.  This is being pro-active and intentional with your money.

What I see most often is 401(k) savings on an “automatic” “pay yourself first” type mentality.  People will then treat the rest of their income like it is meant to be blown.  After all, I did my good deed for the pay check.  “I paid myself first.”  Another shortcoming is the mindset that I adjusted my lifestyle and spending “like I never received the money.”  I contend that people who do this, will never receive the emotional, spiritual or psychological blessings of having managed that money well.  There are only three things you can do with money:  Give, Save and Spend and in that priority.  When do you these three things with a focused intensity, you will experience this amazing thing called “Financial Peace.”

As a Christian, our priority is never to pay ourselves first. We’re told in scripture many times and in many ways that giving is our first priority.  Hover over these scriptures to read them.   Exodus 34:19, Exodus 34:26, Leviticus 2:12, Numbers 18:12, Numbers 28:26, Deuteronomy 26:1-2, Proverbs 3:9, 2 Chronicles 31:5, Ezek 44:30.

Some churches have an automatic deduction plan for giving where they deduct money from a bank account.  In what has now become a classic of the Christian faith, Anne Ortland’s  Up with Worship:  How to Quit Playing Church, makes the case that Christian giving is an act of worship.  Ortland draws a graphic picture of sacrificing livestock in the old testament as an act of worship.  She makes the case that we discount the blessings of sacrifical giving when it becomes a thoughtless process we do on Sunday mornings.  If 20 years ago, Ortland’s classic claimed simply writing a check and actively putting it in the offering plate each week diminished worship, how much more do we diminish it today by automating the process so we’re not even physically writing a check any more?

Saving is incredibly wise. Proverbs 21:20, Ecclesiastes 11:2, Proverbs 21:5,  The magic formula for wealth building is  live on less than you make and do something smart with the difference.  The challenge of this post is to take money management to a higher level.  Automatic savings is good; however, proactive management of all of the resources you have been given is a higher standard.  That is good stewardship.  One must also realize the best way to build wealth is to do it slowly over time.  Proverbs 13:11

Government Knows the Value of Being Paid First: Another part of “Pay Yourself First” that makes me chuckle is that for everybody who is an employee, the government makes it impossible to pay yourself first because they put themselves first.  How can you pay yourself first, or even tithe first when our Government is calling “Dibs” on your money before you even get it?

To become a better steward, here are some excellent pointers:

  1. Be intentional with: Giving, Saving and Spending. Always use a written game plan.  You should be cognitively aware of your finances at any given time.  Proverbs 27:23-24
  2. Automate the physical tasks of the transaction but not the intentionality. If you lose intentionality, you may be short changing yourself the cognitive, emotional, and spiritual blessings that result from being a good steward of those resources.  David supports intentional sacrificial giving (Read 1 Chronicles 21:22-24 and 2 Samuel 24:21-24).
  3. Consider automating with a Push process instead of a Pull process.  A manual Bill Pay service is the perfect example of a push process.  You log on to the banking web site and proactively push money to its destination.  When you have direct drafts set up against your checking account, you are rely on the other end to pull money out of your account.   When you push a car, you stay in control of where it goes.  When a tow truck driver pulls your car with a wrecker, the truck driver is in control of what happens to your car.  This sense of control is essential to a healthy proactive management of money.
  4. Use manual processes to help change yourself first. It takes 3 months to really form a new habit.  You are your own secret weapon with the battle of the budget.  Become a saver by intentionally writing out a budget and intentionally moving the money yourself.  Developing this discipline is essential to your long term financial health.

To summarize my thoughts I will leave you with this thought.  Automatic savings plans are great for people who already have developed the budgeting skills and financial discipline.  It makes things easier.  However, I do not suggest automatic savings plans for people learning to write a zero based budget and  learning how to be proactive money managers.  I’m making the argument that using automatic savings plans before you develop the budgeting skills and knowledge is like a new student flying a plane on autopilot.  Yeah, if everything works, it will get you to your financial destinations.  When something goes wrong, you can expect to crash.

What are your thoughts and experiences?

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Life Coaching Lesson From Tinker Bell

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Photo © Disney Enterprises, Inc. All rights reserved.

Photo © Disney Enterprises, Inc. All rights reserved.

Life Coaching from  Tinker Bell?  You’ve got to be kidding me right?

Tinker Bell Movie Review:  Disney weaves this enchanted story around a struggle every single person must face at some point in their life:  What are my gifts?  What are my talents?  What are my abilities?  I don’t want to use my gifts!  Why can’t I have your gifts?   My 3 year old daughter received the movie as a Christmas gift.  On family night, we watched the movie.  I have came to the conclusion, this will make an excellent coaching tool.  Truth be told, I see a lot of coaching clients that are still struggling with these basic questions.   I promise not to spoil the movie but lets take a look at how Disney fills in some history to one of their most beloved characters:  Tinker Bell.

In Peter Pan, we learned how fairies die – somebody says, “I d-n’t b-li-ve in Fairies!”  (I’m taking caution just in case typing it has the same effect!)  This story picks up with how fairies are born…  when a baby first laughs a fairy is born.  The movie starts with the birth of a new Fairy:  Bell.  Bell is born and we are introduced to some of the other characters in Disney’s expansion of their Princess characters:  Disney Fairies.

Photo © Disney Enterprises, Inc. All rights reserved.

Photo © Disney Enterprises, Inc. All rights reserved.

Each of the fairies has their own individual talent that they use to help the seasons change.  Some are gifted with wind, some water, some can harness sunlight, etc.  We’re presented the usual Disney princess types and then Bell is born.  Bell begins looking for her gift.  She determines its not with one of the other princess fairy groups.  Bell’s gift appears to be with a group of nerd fairies wearing strange green clothes.  Sure enough, Bell’s gift is that she is a Tinkerer.  My wife didn’t think I was familiar with term, so I won’t assume you are either.  Think Tinker Toys.  Building widgets and tools that are helpful in everyday life.  In contemporary vocational terms, Tinker Bell is a very gifted mechanical engineer.  (My wife and I were really excited to see a Disney Princess with a stereotype breaking role.)  Tinker Bell’s name is derived from vocational gift.

As the story unfolds, we see Tinker Bell wanting to deny the gifts bestowed upon her at birth.  Rather than looking inward to see the value of her own unique gifts, she tries to learn other fairies gifts.  Tinker Bell sets her heart on going to the main land where she can be instrumental in bringing in Spring time with the fairies that have gifts involving nature.  A tinker’s job is to stay back in Pixie Hollow and create tools for other fairies to use.  The best line of the entire movie was when Tinker Bell has failed at other vocations.  A friend asks her, “What is it that you absolutely love doing?  What is it that fulfills you the most?”  That is what you are gifted at doing.

Disney’s Tinker Bell movie presents the message find your gift and your calling in life.   Kids of all ages are still asking the question, “What do I want to be when I grow up?”

Have you been ignoring your own God given gifts in pursuit of somebody else’s calling?  What “job at the mainland” have you been chasing?   Have you completely undervalued the gifts you’ve been given?  If you’re stuggling how to turn your God given talents into a profitable career, please contact us.  We would love to help you find a career coach to serve your needs.

Here the trailer from Tinker Bell.  I’d love to know your thoughts on Life Coaching Lessons from Tinker Bell.

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